Romance is one of those things that guys like to show off on a special occasion. Unfortunately, for most guys, the only occasion that they actually pick to show how romantic they are is Valentine’s Day, and all other men in the world are doing the exact same thing. If you are really looking to move forward in your relationship by showing your partner just how romantic you can be, then you shouldn’t be holding it off for that one day out of the year. Sometimes you just need to surprise your partner with something romantic to show them you still care.
Now, a lot of guys may think that this means they are going to have to make reservations at some fancy restaurant with candles and real table cloths. While that would be a show of romance, you don’t need to bother with all of that. Most women want you to be romantic in subtle ways, and that is a good thing because it can actually save you a lot of money. Why do you need the fancy restaurant when you have a nice backyard with a table that you can put candles on? You see how that works?
You have to think about the atmosphere of the area that you are planning to be romantic in. If the atmosphere is romantic, then you could probably walk out in clown shoes and a lamp shade on your head and they wouldn’t mind at all. If you are going to cook dinner for your partner, then why not kick on the grill and make some steaks? Don’t go for the overly man sized ones, either; keep it petite like filets mignon instead and make a salad to go with it. You already have the candles and now you have the food, too.
A little bit of soft music can go a long way into making the atmosphere romantic, but it shouldn’t be anything played off the radio. Imagine holding hands and staring into each other’s eyes as the music fades out and on comes that loud car salesman yelling about how crazy he is for selling everything at half price. That’s not so romantic when you think it through. Find some songs that she really likes or create a station just for her on Pandora, plug in your Bluetooth speaker and allow it to play in the background. And if she’s anything like me, you may want to toss in a few House Music tracks that the two of you can dance to as well.
Dancing is one of those romantic things that your partner would love for you to do from time to time and, if you are doing all of this in your backyard or on your deck, then you won’t have to worry about the fact that everyone is staring at you on the dance floor; no one but the two of you are there. You can hold each other and sway to the music and that is extremely romantic. Try to plan all of this for when she gets home from work. Even draw up a bath for her so that she can relax before she gets her moonlight dinner on the promenade. It can be the perfect evening.
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