There are many beautiful women in the world that are stuck home and alone on the weekends simply because of their beauty. This may not make ANY sense to some of you whatsoever; especially the women that see themselves as ordinary and even physically unattractive. However, women these same women are more likely to have a date when they need and want it, or they’re in a relationship with the guy of their dreams. How is something like that even possible?
Believe it or not, it’s very possible. The age old problem of men that fear beauty in a woman never goes away. Even great looking guys can look at a stunning woman and figure that she’s just too gorgeous for him and would never agree to go out with him. So you can imagine how ordinary men feel about risking an approach to a beautiful woman. Therefore, it’s not unusual at all for a great looking woman to be sitting all alone in a bar. The men are too afraid of rejection to approach her. She, on the other hand, may be dying for one of them to just come over and talk to her. The lesson here is that beautiful women may also be looking for love and wanting to be approached on the inside, too.
Then, of course, there are the divas. These are gorgeous women that know how hot they are and they really haven’t found anyone that they deem worthy of dating. They know that they can call any guy they want or walk up to any guy in any location and be able to reel them in. Heck, they may even have “P” on speed dial. This is a problem of a different sort. These women may be lonely due to their incredible beauty, but it’s their own fault. They choose to be high and mighty – nose in the air type women and because of this, we find it hard to feel sorry for them.
Beauty on the outside does not always guarantee beauty on the inside, no matter how good looking she is. These women are a bit different than the divas. The divas are aware of what they’re doing and they’re not always horrible. They just feel a bit entitled because of their beauty. On the other hand, there are women that are beautiful on the outside that at many times harbor a soul that’s black as night. These women are alone because of one of many reasons:
- They simply have no clue how to treat another human being.
- They’re manipulative and only pretend to be nice when they want something.
- They have been so hurt in the past that they put up this HUGE wall of being overly-confident and entitled when really they are crying/acting out just to be loved.
- They don’t want to be hurt again and therefore put up a “strong woman” persona in an effort to protect themselves.
So how does the beautiful woman that is broken on the inside find a way to attract and maintain and authentic relationship? By working with a coach to identify her blocks, her pain, her internal demons and growing through them so that she can make room in her life and in her heart to attract someone that is perfectly imperfect for her.
Now, for guys that are on the lookout for a woman to get to know a little better, don’t immediately discount beautiful women. If that gorgeous woman sitting at the bar is giving you some encouraging glances and smiles, then you need to go for it! Lock away those nerves and on over there. You’ll know within a matter of minutes whether or not she’s interested, and you don’t have to be humiliated in order to find out. Chances are good that she’ll be very receptive, especially if she was checking you out first. Give it a shot you never know.
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Women seem to be more invested in keeping their relationships together than men do, for the most part. However, on the other hand, they also tend to unknowingly destroy their relationships in some very simple and unknowing ways. Once they start, it’s usually very hard to fix things.
Once you know you’re ready to date and you know the type of relationship you’re looking for, it’s time to get an idea of what you’re looking for in a partner. While some might say that this limits you too much, it’s possible to both know what you’re looking for and be open to something else.
It’s disheartening to look at the sad statistics these days when it comes to the divorce rate compared with the number of actual successful marriages. So many women jump into marriage only to lament later in those same marriages that there are so many things they wished they had known before they said I do. This is true even of the women that married after living with their partner for a significant amount of time. It seems that even knowing your husband-to-be as much as you can from living with him still isn’t enough. Things women wish they had known before walking down the aisle include:
These days, cheating is becoming a highly popularized hobby for people, especially younger folks who like to “play the field.” However, those who have been cheated on know that affairs are nothing to be taken lightly. They are extremely damaging blows to most all relationships. When an affair occurs, that’s usually it.
Dating can be filled with dangers that you may never have thought existed before. Not everyone is prepared to go out on a date for the first time as they may think. Because of this, embarrassing moments can occur that will either ruin the night entirely or end up giving you something to laugh about during your second date. No matter what kind of night you are having, you should always remember that you are human and bad things are just going to happen from time to time. But there are ways of getting around some of those bad things.
Romance is one of those things that guys like to show off on a special occasion. Unfortunately, for most guys, the only occasion that they actually pick to show how romantic they are is Valentine’s Day, and all other men in the world are doing the exact same thing. If you are really looking to move forward in your relationship by showing your partner just how romantic you can be, then you shouldn’t be holding it off for that one day out of the year. Sometimes you just need to surprise your partner with something romantic to show them you still care.